NLP Made Easy! Episode # 6: Our External Behaviours Are Not External!
Hi Friends!
Take a rubber band and pull. Then leave it....you will see the rubber band going back to its original shape. If it does not, then it is not a rubber band which can be used because it does not have the functionality of a rubber band! The same thing is true of human beings. If we take the natural instinct of resistance from human beings, we will cease to be human beings. We are not robots to be manipulated by commands.... You see a person indulging in some activities. You may like it or may not like it. Just because you don't like it you cannot change it. Because he is 'programmed' to display that behaviour.
What you see outside a person is not just an 'extra fitting'! But what is inside is projecting
outside. This principle applies to human behaviours and habits. We cannot remove a behaviour or habit by applying the 'Alt+Cont+Del' Key! We cannot remove a behaviour by force, nor can we introduce a new behaviour by force. That will amount to 'manipulation'.
Manipulation is
temporary, but modification is permanent. Modification calls
for convincing the mind and intellect of the person. NLP will be useful to
achieve this. Human beings are not puppets nor you are a puppeteer!
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