‘Connect’ with People.
To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be
the world.
– Brandi Snyder
One enviable trait I notice among
successful people is their ability to sincerely connect with people. They are
people oriented. ‘Connecting’ with people is different from merely knowing and
being friendly with people. When you meet such people, you will know that they
care for you. When you speak to them, they ‘listen’ to you and not merely
‘hear’ you. They are emotionally involved and care for you. You will enjoy your
comfort level when you seek their help. You will realise this by their
promptness and the quality of their help. When you share your emotions with
them, they vibrate your feelings.
They will remember you on
important occasions. When they promise something, they don’t need any follow
up. They are there, if you want a shoulder to weep. They are there, when you want to share your
exciting moments of your life with them. They are there, when you want them to
understand your feelings.
Can you evaluate how well you
connect with people whom you know? Can you improve this aspect of your
personality?
(From my book '365 Exciting Ways to Live')
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