Showing posts with label Taking Responsibility. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Taking Responsibility. Show all posts

Monday, February 29, 2016

'Mindscaping' for career building 26



'If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger
 to accomplish your dreams'.


Think for a few minutes: are you happy with your position in your organisation? Are you satisfied with the salary and the perks that you receive today? Are you happy with your power and authority?
If you are happy and satisfied, who is responsible for this? If you are not happy and satisfied, again, who is responsible for this?


Owning the responsibility is a very important factor for progress or corrective action. If we own the responsibility for our unhappiness, then, we will also take responsibility for the corrective action and the action plan that follows. This alone will give us the commitment and involvement.

If we do not own the responsibility for our position, and especially if we are not satisfied, we will resort to four responses: blaming, labeling, complaining, criticizing and avoiding.

For example, if we are not promoted, and if we are not satisfied, we will blame our superior, we will label him as unreasonable, we will complain to others that we did not receive the recognition we deserve, we will criticise our organisation and will avoid taking corrective action to improve the situation.

Over this weekend, spend some time on this very important question and check where do you stand.

N C Sridharan
www.thetimefoundation.com
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Wednesday, December 24, 2014

365 Exciting ways to live - 79

79 / 365 Take Responsibility
You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.
That is something you have charge of.
 Jim Rohn

Take personal responsibility in order to grow. Even in situations, where you are a victim of circumstances, think how you could have avoided the damage. We find one hundred reasons, why we are not responsible for what happens to us. That will be rationalising how helpless we are. Successful people differ from others on one unique trait: they own responsibility for what happens to them.
You don’t grow by blaming or complaining about others for your position in life. You will feel bad. But that is not going to help you in any way. Next time when you suffer any setback, ask yourself the following questions:
  • In what way I am responsible for it?
  • How could I have prevented it?
  • What do I learn from this?
  • How am I going to prevent its recurrence?
  • What strategy do I have to reduce the damage that is done to me?
Remember that we can learn a lot from our everyday experience. Life is not what happens to us; what is more important is what we do with what happens to us!
(From my book “365 Exciting Ways to Live”)
'365 Exciting Ways to Live' is an ideal gift for any special occasion and a good reading material for supervisory development. You can also gift this book to the school or college you studied....
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 N.C. Sridharan
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