Showing posts with label Facial Expression in Public Speaking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Facial Expression in Public Speaking. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

365 Exciting Ways to Live: Excitement # 30 - Mind Your Facial Expression

Mind Your Facial Expression
God has given you one face, and you make yourself another.
– William Shakespeare

Face is the index of your mind. How do you present yourself to others? How is your facial expression? What feelings does it reflect? Only the human beings have the rare gift of conveying something through their mere facial expression!
I have come across people who convey happiness, excitement, enthusiasm, energy etc. in their face. These people electrify others by their very presence. I have also come across people who carry a depressed, sad, unhappy, irritated and timid face. They destroy the enthusiasm of others around them. The third category is expressionless faces!   When you speak to them, you will not know if they are listening to you at all!
Have you ever thought where you belong to in the above three types?   We are not alone in this world.  We are surrounded by people.  How we present ourselves to others will decide the quality of our interpersonal relationship.  Your facial expression conveys something very important about your internal personality. In fact your facial expression conveys how you feel inside.

From today, resolve to carry a pleasant and enthusiastic facial expression. Initially you may find it difficult. Anything is possible if you understand why you need it. 
(From my book '365 Exciting Ways to Live')
N C Sridharan

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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

'CONNECT' 28: Tips on Public Speaking: Facial Expression....


'Peace begins with a smile'
Mother Teresa

We speak not only through words, but also non verbally. The first and foremost non verbal communication takes place through our face. Face is the index of the mind. Since public speaking is also connecting with the mind of the audience, your facial expression is very important to decide the quality of your delivery. Haven't you heard people say 'his facial expression revealed the real story!' or 'I could read from his face that he is pulling a fast one....' etc?


The first and the easiest (for some people it is the most difficult thing!) is to smile! People will like you if you smile; it will put people at ease; it will convey warmth; it will bridge relationship and rapport. I read somewhere that a smile is a 'non physical hug'!

You should also carry an expression on your face that matches the feeling you want to convey. Here's an exercise. Stand in front of a mirror and make your face to convey these emotions: happy; sad; embarrassed; surprised; nervous; tired; sleepy; angry. You can show these expressions on your face and ask your friends to find out what emotions you are carrying in your mind!

Interesting isn't it? Yes, effective communication is interesting - both for you and to others!

N C Sridharan

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