Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Monday, December 29, 2014

365 Exciting ways to live. 82

82/ 365  Birds of the Same Feather Flock Together
Our environment, the world in which we live and work, is a mirror of our attitudes and expectations.

When you want to heat up something, you put it in an oven. To freeze something, you place it in a deep freezer. The object takes the property of its surroundings. It is the law of nature. We are also influenced by the people, who surround us. To be a writer, move with writers; to be an artist, be in the company of artists; to be a musician, spend a lot of your time with musicians.
To become an expert, we should acquire the best knowledge. There are two gateways to knowledge: through what we hear and what we see. Unless you are in the company of right people, you will not have the opportunity to get exposed to relevant knowledge, appropriate for your profession.
Introspect and decide the field in which you want to make a mark. List all the people, who are achieving in that field and try to spend as much time as possible with them. Join a professional association, where such people meet and discuss and take active part in such bodies.
You alone should succeed, but you cannot succeed alone!
(From my book “365 Exciting Ways to Live”)
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Thursday, July 25, 2013

Do you have ‘relevant’ friends?


Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk with me and be my friend.
Albert Camus

I read a quotation which reads ‘tell me who your friend is and I’ll tell who you are’. This quotation is very common in many languages.

The quality of our life is influenced by what we constantly see and hear hence the profile of our friends is a key factor which will shape our attitude and thinking process. 


Decide what you want to be in your life and heights you want to scale in your career. Be specific in defining your goal.
Then ask the following questions to yourself:
•    Do I have relevant friends circle matching my career ambition?
•    Do I have a legend or role model among my friends’ circle whom I can emulate?
•    Do I spend quality time with such friends who are relevant to my life?
•    How do I benefit maximum from my friends’ circle to further my career?
•    How can contribute to my friends’ ambitions and goals?

May be it is a good idea to ‘audit’ this parameter of ourselves once a year! Take one area of your life and double the quality of your friendship in that area and notice what happens to your life in one year!

You will be amazed!
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N C Sridharan


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